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Making Books With Children
By Ruth Beaglehole

A wonderful tool to help children understand what is happening in their lives is to make special books for them. Books help the child know about their experiences as well as supporting them with their feelings. They let the child know that we take very seriously what happens to them. It is a healing experience for the child to have his/her experience validated. It can be compared to the journal writing that many adults do to support themselves with their own lives.

Writing books with children is an important literacy tool. We are communicating to the children that writing and reading are valuable ways to access the world. We let them know that we value the printed work and that there is a lot to discover by reading.

Books also help the parents have a way to communicate with their child in a clear and simple way. They are able to teach the lessons of life that they want their children to learn. It is a tool to resolve conflict and to change negative anger into supportive teaching. They can be used to prepare children for a change that may be going to happen, or to help understand a scary that that happened, or will happen.

Books are easy to make. Take two or three pieces of paper, fold them in half to make four to eight pages, and staple them. For young toddlers, books can be one piece of paper left unfolded. Draw simple pictures and write words that explain the feeling or experience you are writing about. That is not about drawing an artist’s sketch! Simple stick figures work well. Print the words in lower case letters as children will learn when they start school. It is the adult’s words that are used. Older children can contribute their words and may want to draw on the last page. For younger toddlers, the words need to be very simple. Alex sad! Crying! Fall down!

Name the book with the child’s name and the subject. Andrews book about going to the Doctor. Mary’s book about her Angry feelings. Each page has a picture with a little of the story. Write the situation followed by the child’s feelings.

There is nothing that can’t be made into a book. It may feel awkward at first but with practice parents and teachers find it a wonderful activity to help children understand their world.
 
     
 

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